As new experiences go, this one was refreshing. Upon accepting an invitation to a mountain party, thoughts of what I would experience brought on images of everything from the Elvis mountain movie “Kissin’ Cousins”, to the “Dog Patch” comic strip characters, and to unknown events that might lie ahead.
The party was only ten miles out of town, but with the winding roads and traveling at 20-30 miles per hour, it took us forever to get there. Traveling around one twisted turn to the next, we saw this little building that was four feet wide and about three feet deep. There was a door in the side and a window in the front. The wood had grayed with age and an old sign hung above the window. It read, “Welcome to Mudhole, TN Community Center”.
Lynnette and I laughed about this building and questioned what was in store for the rest of the evening. Driving down this gravel road, we turned into the driveway of our friends who hosted the party. The end of the driveway opened into a beautiful valley with an attractive home. To our amazement there were cars everywhere.
Talking to our host, he told us that he has this party every year around his birthday and the party lasts for three days and nights. We found such a peacefulness in the air as we met a lot of new people from the mountain area. Everyone kept bringing in great homemade food as we sat around a big bonfire listening to personal life stories being told.
Just as you might imagine there was music in the air (Beatles) as the host sat down and talked about their little community. He said, “We have a great community here. There are about 75 families that live on this mountain and we watch out for each other. If we dialed 911 for an emergency, it would take no less than a half hour for someone to arrive. Therefore the telephone company has set up a special line so that if there is an emergency, we dial one number and it rings into all the homes in the area. Within three minutes of the call, five to ten cars will be in the driveway of the person needing help.
Heaven forbid that someone is being hurt by someone else because we take care of our friends.” Funny, but I realized what he meant. They really understood the value of community. Many people today will live their entire lives and never experience community like this. We have acquaintances we run into occasionally, people we only smile at in church, or a group of soccer parents you see once or twice a week for an hour. But, do we really build lasting relationships with those near to us?
Maybe by taking the first step and getting into a small group of people doing life together we can take the dynamics of a church and become small communities of believers that watch out for each other. Jesus spent most of His ministerial relationship with just twelve people, and they have changed the world forever. Isn’t time we build a community of believers?
Can you tell I love being part of a small group?