Words bulid up - Words break down

I was told years ago that "A dozen atta boys for great work will all be canceled by one aww sh___!"  It was until I was in college that I realized that this was true.

Growing up in a stern household, it was thought by my father and grandfather that you will try harder if you do not measure up to their desires for your life.  One of the favorite sayings was, "You'll never amount to a hill of beans."  Working on the farm, I knew what a hill of beans meant.  Six beans can only give limited results when compared to a whole field.  Next was the comment, "You don't have enough sense to pound sand down a rat hole".    Enough said about that saying.

Over the years these comments hardened me to "Prove them wrong." Now as I get into my twilight years, I look back and realize that some of the things I did was for that reason only.  My serving to others in being a youth minister, moving up the corporate ladder, being a city mayor,  a court judge, directing a Christian Camp and Resort, and the list goes on and on was not as much serving as proving my family wrong.

One pain that stuck with me for years was to hear a conversation by my Dad and a close family member.  I was taking a shower and overheard them say, "Gary can not be a Mayor because he is over his head and dreams more than he can do."  I stood in the shower and cried as memories of words said years earlier flooded my head and that my own fa.    Instead of giving up, it just made me more determined to work harder.  We won all precincts in the elections.

I did serve to help others but my motives were not all pure.  My knowledge of this motive has made me leery of most politicians and those working in serving areas.

Therefore I am more sensitive to the words I chose and the words I hear others blurt out.  Often words can cut deeper than any knife as many people do not  realize the damage they are causing.  Tearing people down does not make you a better person but instead has the opposite effect.

Pointing fingers at others is not a great accomplishment.    Right now, point your finger at the screen.  One finger is pointing at the screen but three fingers are pointing back at you.  Realize that every time you point out others failures there are three times as many pointing back at you.  The same is in tearing someone down with your words.



The choice is yours, build up others with words of kindness, favor, and love or tear them down to make you think you look better.  The reality is those words may come back to haunt you.

Interviews to Destroy

 Galatians 6:7 Do not be deceived; God is not mocked, for you reap whatever you sow. Even while I served in a political office for years I hated “politics”.

Recently I heard a person interviewed on the television and I felt sorry for the man. The interviewer was not asking questions for the man to answer, but instead he was trying to trap the individual to make a mistake.

Later that night I saw the “commentary” of the interview and they had pulled six words out of the interview and for the next three minutes they proceeded to tear at the man’s character over how he phrased those six words.   Thinking a few minutes about what was miss-spoken, I wondered how an interview with Jesus would be accomplished.  

Then I heard a lady reporter make an observation.

She noted that she had already prepared a list of questions that would prove him not to be anything but a terrorist that incited people to rebel. Questions included those like, “How did you fool all those people into thinking you were dead?” “Did you have a twin that walked the city after your death and stole your body to fool people into believing that you were the Messiah?’ “Why didn’t you stay on earth and lead the nations, heal the sick, or do Godly stuff?”

Her list of questions went on and on and her co-anchor noted that she would give Him an interview He would never forget. Shocking as it may seem, I believe she would do everything in her power to destroy the character of Jesus for her own satisfaction and political gain. What have we shrunk to as a nation?

It seems that God is not feared, reverenced, or respected by our media. They do not conceive “faith” or “grace” in any part of their imagination. They are so set on self gratification and the humiliation of others which does not build up people but destroys them. If I sound frustrated, it is because the Lord told us to build people up and not tear them down.

We will not agree with everything they say or do, but we are called to love them as Jesus loves us. Through my frustration with the attacking portion of the media, I am sad because I know that one day they will get a chance to talk to Jesus face to face and he will interview them. Matthew 7:23. “Then I will declare to them, "I never knew you; go away from me, you evildoers.”

We need to pray for our nation.  There are demonstrations in our own cities with no direction but they want everything to change. Funny, but they have that freedom to protest because people fought battles for our freedom.

As for me, I have starting praying for our media, even the ones that want to interview Jesus. 

Do You Hate Upgrades?

Sitting in front of the computer, I am working away in a given program and then I get a pop up screen that says, "Upgrade available".    My mind is on what program I'm using and so I say, "Later".  Well sometimes you get an email that says, "You have a FREE upgrade for _____ program."  So you think, I guess I need to upgrade and reply to the email only to see the blue screen of death flash in your face.

Naturally you become slow to upgrade your computer because you are not sure of the results.

Well we all get the upgrade message every morning when we get out of bed and get started for our work.  The Lord nudges us with the thought "Upgrade available".  That upgrade comes from spending time in His word and having a little talk with Him each day.  Yet many of us normally hit the delete button in our minds or the "later" button.

It does not take long for us to start and finish each day without an upgrade to our lives.  Then we wonder why we get sluggish, frustrated, insecure, anger easily, and many times depressed.  It is because you did not get today's upgrade to spend a little time with the Lord.  It does not have to be hours on end but just to do two things.  Open your heart to learn something from Him and to communicate with Him.  He will dump his love, direction, and peace on you for today.  Then tomorrow you will be ready for your next upgrade. 

As for me I am getting upgrade 21,535.0.  I have not uploaded each one since becoming a Christ Follower, but I know the Lord has had that upload there for me.

Are you going to hit the "delete" button each day or maybe the "later" button.  Why not just hit the "Upload Now" button in your life and see what happens next.  You will be amazed at the great program the Lord has for your life today.