Books I am Reading or listening to this year

  • Sun, Stand, Still - A Great Small Group Study
  • Circle Maker are great books that anyone can quickly read. They will change your life!
  • 9 1/2 Principles for Innovative Service

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Romantic Games - Part 1

Men who know me, know that years ago I wrote a book on romance for men called. "Romantic Games Adults Should Play".  It was directed to men on building esteem in their wives through romantic games which showed an appreciation of them in fun games and are uplifting and not just sexually demeaning.

Since I have over 130 games in the book, I will give you some samples that can be used to build appreciation for your spouse.  

Romantic Games Adults Should Play offers creative, innovative ideas that help adults become "kids" without the "adult toys."  

Invisible Mirror, Mirror

Items Needed:    Hard Bar of Soap

          Write your love a message of how you love and appreciate your bride of a week or 40 years upon the bathroom mirror using the bar of soap, but take your fingernail and chip off the obvious flakes of soap. The mirror will appear almost normal. When your wife showers the next morning and steams up the bathroom, your love message will appear and be present for her as she towel dries herself.
          If you do not have a bar of hard soap, buy some eyeglass defogger or liquid windshield defogger. Pour a little defogger onto the cotton swab and write your love note on the mirror. It may take awhile to get the windshield defogger off the mirror, but the great part of it is the message is a reminder for your spouse each time she takes a hot bath or shower.

Mirror, Mirror
Version 2

Items Needed:  A couple of Dry Erase Markers

          This is one game that I do quite often and keep a couple of Dry Erase Markers in my bathroom drawer at all times.  Before your bride showers or baths, write your love message using the dry erase marker on the mirror.  I use the red one to make hearts and the other colors to write the message.  Then go off to work or any activity so it does not draw attention to you but is a reminder to your wife that you are thinking of her.

Make sure you NEVER use a permanent marker as you will have to find some solvent to get the marker off the mirror and “trust me”, you will be in trouble.

Now have fun building your relationship through this simple game.

You can pass this on to other men who need help in learning to be romantic!